I haven’t kept to my posting schedule. It just hasn’t worked out for me. In the middle of September we (my mother and I) started planning my long overdue wedding. It’s been pretty full on since.
Tonight I find myself sitting, trying to get university work done before I get married tomorrow and am not able to do it in time for class on Monday. I’ve been pretty organised with regards to wedding prep. I like to stay on top of things, and it’s worked pretty well.
The final dress fittings were done yesterday and today; the dresses were delivered this evening. The cake was picked up by my mother and brother yesterday (to save me a job) but when I saw it I couldn’t believe how they’d screwed it up. So I had to go back with it and tell them I was dissatisfied. That got picked up this morning (no long lies for us!) and, thankfully it was umpteen times better!
Tonight I guess I should be doing something relaxing. Instead I’m critiquing fellow classmates’ writing. Then I’m revising my vows and my thank you speech as well as making last minute tweaks. It’s hard not to feel a little deflated.
I have been overwhelmed by the generosity of my friends and family. I don’t just mean gifts. I mean the kind wishes and compliments and nice thoughts that people have shared with us. We’ve received lovely cards in the post and a wonderful delivery arrived the other evening. The wonderful, incredibly talented and astoundingly generous Cyranette sent Mister T and I the most beautiful, thoughtful and kind gift. I don’t know how I can ever begin to tell her how grateful and how touched we were by it! Thank you so very much.
I guess this is my last post as an unwed woman… I’ll let you know how it feels to be on the other side!















March 8th, 2013 at 22:05
Not fair! I want to see a picture of the dress! You will share pictures of the wedding, right?
Have a blessed day tomorrow. You will make a beautiful bride and a loving wife.
March 8th, 2013 at 22:06
I’m just a big tease, Robin! Ha ha!
Thank you so much for your lovely comments. Don’t worry, all will be revealed!
March 8th, 2013 at 22:09
I meant to say put the critique you are working on aside. Focus on you!
March 8th, 2013 at 22:39
Trust me, it’s a welcome distraction.
March 8th, 2013 at 22:13
I hope that tomorrow is all that you have ever dreamed and more! Can’t wait to see pics (hint Hint)!
March 8th, 2013 at 22:41
Hint taken on board!
Thanks, Carla. I’m hoping it goes well too. Don’t worry, I shall certainly be filling you in!
March 8th, 2013 at 22:16
I agree with Robin. Everyone!!! will understand if you don’t have the critiques done on time. Just let yourself be filled with anticipation and joy midst all this other stuff.
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Best wishes for a very happy marriage.
March 8th, 2013 at 22:40
Thanks, Jilanne. The pragmatist within me is screaming that life goes on and I think the people in my class won’t care that my wedding got in the way… lol. It’s only fair to get it done.
Thanks for your kind wishes!
March 8th, 2013 at 22:50
Ah the wedding dress. I had to fly mine across Australia and the Air Hostesses took my dress and hung it in first class and looked after it all the way. I am of course almost bursting to peek at yours. Good luck and much, much happiness.
March 8th, 2013 at 22:51
Wow, I love that! That’s so fabulous! It’s amazing how excited other people seem to get when they hear you’re getting wed!!! Thank you so much.
March 8th, 2013 at 23:33
Have a wonderful wonderful wonderful day my lovely gal!
x
March 17th, 2013 at 19:02
Thanks so much – updates coming soon!
March 9th, 2013 at 00:54
Congrats Katy!!! So happy for you
March 17th, 2013 at 19:03
Thanks a million, Kloipy!
March 9th, 2013 at 01:12
Okay, you may not see this until after the ceremony, but I hope you have/had a wonderful day and remember/remembered to enjoy yourself, too!
March 17th, 2013 at 19:04
Thanks so much for your kind wishes. We had a truly wonderful day!
March 9th, 2013 at 01:32
Have a beautiful and blessed day! Can’t wait to see your future posts as a married woman!
March 17th, 2013 at 19:04
Aww, thanks so much, Trish! Will be updating very soon!
March 9th, 2013 at 02:30
I hope you have a lovely wedding.
March 17th, 2013 at 19:04
Thanks a million, Jodie – we had a wonderful time!
March 9th, 2013 at 08:42
Forget the Uni homework Kate, you have a good excuse!
And just remember this tomorrow…
“All you need is love”
John Lennon/Paul McCartney
xx
March 17th, 2013 at 19:08
Aww, that is so lovely! Thanks a million Maggie!
March 9th, 2013 at 08:49
CONGRATS LOVE!!!!
March 17th, 2013 at 19:08
Aww, thank you!
March 9th, 2013 at 10:13
Ahhh!!!
The day is finally here!
#Kate’s getting married in the morning!
I hope today is an amazing day for both you and Mister T as well as your friends and family!
I can’t wait for the news on how it went and the beautiful photographs!!
Have an incredible day!!xx
March 17th, 2013 at 19:22
Thanks a million, Apple! We had a superb day and I shall be updating you all very soon! xxx
March 17th, 2013 at 23:25
Awww..I’m so glad to hear it! I hope married life so far has been blissful, dreamy and super amazing!
I’m looking forward to the update!
Congratulations again!xx
March 18th, 2013 at 22:31
Aww, you are too sweet! The first week was great. Unfortunately, Mister T went back up to Stornoway yesterday. I’m missing him loads. Absence and hearts and all that, eh?
March 20th, 2013 at 20:32
What? Doing homework the night before your wedding. Well as you said, it probably was a welcome distraction. Getting married can be quite nerve racking as you are no doubt well aware of by now. I hope everything went off without a hitch (I mean with a hitch, HA!)
March 22nd, 2013 at 10:36
It was a good alternative to all the ill feeling within the household that evening! I guess nerves get the better of folks sometimes!
March 23rd, 2013 at 18:44
Oh they certainly do me. I wouldn’t have slept a wink!